Our Story
Our family are taking part in the Great North Run to celebrate how far we’ve come, and how far we’re still going to go.
Our son Reef was born just over three years ago in very difficult circumstances. He was a little early, drastically underweight, and started life in an incubator with Raphaelle also very unwell under hospital care.
Both showed themselves to be incredible fighters, with Reef the most tiny but determined little thing we’ve ever seen. He surprised everyone by being ready to be discharged from hospital within just a couple of weeks, and we returned home to start both our new life as a family and a new job for Barney.
Four weeks into that job Barney had a stroke while working at his desk on a Monday morning (which if you’re going to have one, that’s probably the time and place for it).
Barney was left quite damaged, and told to expect an end to his surfing days and his new career. Particularly as it had hit a part of the brain vital to those things.
This just wasn’t an option, and despite many continual failures and setbacks Barney fought to overcome the challenges, ultimately returning to work and relearning how to surf.
All the while Raphaelle was making a phenomenal recovery of her own, rebuilding her strength and fitness to return to surfing better than ever. And Reef has been nothing short of inspirational, a little ball of determination from day one.
Barney tried an assortment of training while rebuilding himself, and started to get an unexpected taste for running last autumn. Raphaelle is a Great North Run veteran, so entering as a family this year seemed a perfect way to celebrate the fact we’re all still here and able to take on the challenge.
We want to raise some money for the Stroke Association in the hope it’ll help someone else going through some of the things we have.
Great North Run
XWe are taking part in the Great North Run 2025 as part of #TeamStroke
We have joined #TeamStroke for the Great North Run 2025.
There are over 1.3 million stroke survivors in the UK, with 100,000 strokes happening in the UK each year. That's one stroke every five minutes.
We're here to support people to rebuild their lives after stroke. We believe everyone deserves to live the best life they can after stroke, so we work with the stroke community to make sure people affected by stroke get the very best care and support. We rely on your support to provide vital services, campaign for better stroke care and fund research into preventative and rehabilitative treatments.
Thank you to our Sponsors

£106
Loraine Cranfield

£53
Wallaces
🏄🏻♂️🏄🏼♀️🏄🏻 💪 x

£32
Kirsty & James
You’re amazing - we’ll be cheering you on!

£27
Heather Gardiner
What an inspiring family you are!

£27
Andree Plaisance
Go Team Ashton go!

£27
Ruth
An inspirational family all round 💪💪💪

£27
Guylaine Breton
Mes pensées vous accompagnent. ❤️

£26
Giles-san
Go, find balance!

£25
Nat Hills
Good Luck Team Ashton! 🙌🏻

£25
Susan Benton

£25
The Rileys
Go Go Go Team Family Ashton !!!

£22
Shona
Fantastic cause, good luck with the run!!

£22
Fyona Grant
Good luck!

£21
Susie Mcivor
Amazing effort all round Ashton family.

£20
Kate Murphy
Go Team Ashton!

£17

£11
Careen Laird
Go team Ashton! Amazing what you are doing. All the best for the run. From the Lairds

£11
Laura Maynard
What a team! A great challenge for an amazing cause! Have fun on the day xxx

£11
Gus
Wooo go team Ashton!!

£11
Kathryn Powell

£11
Rosie
You guys rock. Especially Reef 😍

£11
Gill James
Good luck guys and enjoy.

£11
Trish

£11
Kathryn Woolcock
You can do it!
So proud of you, looking forward to watching on the days. Much love, mum