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Rebecca Mckay

TCS London Marathon 2025

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I'm taking part in the TCS London Marathon as part of #TeamStroke

Running for Steve - 
I have always dreamed about running the London Marathon, but I never thought I would commit to a charity place. 
That all changed on the 23rd February 2023 when life threw a curve ball for myself and my wonderful Firbobs family. Our amazing Stevie Door had a stroke. 
The following days were spent in a hellish daze, praying for the best whilst expecting the worse. I spent those days visiting Steve and surrounding myself with my Firbobs family and friends for support. This helped me to support my two boys, who were  struggling to understand what was happening to Steve but knew a cloud of sadness had descended. Whilst visiting Steve, I learnt a few things:
- strokes are very common in a very wide array or outcomes(Around 100,000 people have strokes each year and there are 1.3 million stroke survivors in the UK,) 
- That nurses are bloody heros!  The love and care of every nurse and doctor on that ward was nothing short of heart warming. 
- Steve really did have the best family and friends who loved him dearly. 
Steve passed away on the 3rd of March. 
Those who know me well know I struggled with losing Steve more than I could have ever imagined. Chance had made us colleagues, but Steve’s kindness, stupidity , warmth and ability to count skipping ropes (if you know you know😂) had made us friends. Losing Steve's friendship, knowing I'd never hear his stupid jokes or recieve a daft message, completely floored me and everyone who knew Steve. 
After a tremendous outpouring of love and support from friends, family and my councillor, I decided I needed to do something positive with my grief in Steve’s memory. 

Steve always thought it was bonkers that I enjoyed running asking me, “Do you run so you don’t kill people boss?” and, “You must be mad !“ Both are very true, so I could not think of a more fitting way to honour Steve’s memory than doing the thing he thought I was mad for doing but the thing I also know he admired me for! And so I am running the 2025 London Marathon to raise money for Stroke Association and to remember the man I was truly blessed to call my friend.  At the end of the race, a good glass of red wine will be waiting for me, to drink in his honour.

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£2,200

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£275.60

Carberry

Good luck, Beci. We think it 's tremendous.

£106

Carrie & Martin

Good luck Beci, Stevie Wonder was an absolute legend and is missed every day. Thank goodness to you for the friendship and care you gave him. ❤️ Have a great run xx

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Paul Carberry

What a great thing to involved in! All the very best with the training, and hope you enjoy the day!

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Grandpa And Grandma

Good luck

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Mat Carberry

What a fantastic thing you're doing Beci! Best of luck with it!

£53.32

Deanna

You can do it xx

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Kim Sweeney

Good luck Rebecca I am so proud of you & can't wait to join you in London with love Mum & Paul xx

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Meg Jackson

Go smash it Bec, Stevie B really was one of a kind and is greatly missed by everyone. I’m with Steve on this one though you really are crazy… you will well and truly deserve that glass of wine at the end!

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Katie Kirk

You are one of the strongest women I know and it is a privilege to call you my friend! Go smash it!

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Claire Saunders

In memory of a fabulous man! Good luck for the run, love Claire, Ellias & Ava x

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Julie Taylor

He would be so proud of you Bec(even though he thought you were mad)Still miss him and his craziness.Go smash this Beci.Love Julie T xx

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Lee Rees

What an amazing thing to do. Really proud of you Bec Lee Lin Lewis and Harrison

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Kerry Bentley

Good luck xxx

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Paul Gordon

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Sylvia Pritchard

Having suffered a stroke last year I appreciate the work done by the Stroke Association

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Lynn / Mike

We are so proud of you beci Have a good run xxxx

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Julie Cheung

Amazing Beci, Steve (Dave) will be so proud of you, as we all are. Miss him still and never forget way he giggled wen he knew he was being silly! Go smash it Bec. Love Julie C xxx

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Nicola Lomax

Steve touched the heart of so many. A fantastic guy and a great charity to raise money for. Good luck Beci xx

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Rebecca Arathoon

You are going to do amazing 👏 🤩 ✨️ go get it 💪 🙌 x

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Jo

It’s an insane distance to run, but you’ll do amazing because you’ve got a purpose. Go Beci!

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Roy Fox

Absolutely fantastic Rebecca! Roy and Lorraine x

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Kirsty Seddon

Beci, you will absolutely love the atmosphere in London and the day itself will be the reward for your immense hard work and training. Steve will be with you every step of the way and I know you will absolutely smash it! I'm so proud of you. K x

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Steve Pendergast

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David Acquah

Inspirational Becs. All the very best with training and the event itself.

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Prydden

Good luck Beci! Steve was a very special person and missed at Firbobs. From Seb and Georg

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Stephanie Sweatman

I'll be with you in spirit every step of the way. Very proud of you. 😘

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Victoria Bevan

This is amazing Bec, you will absolutely smash it!! Steve will be with you every step of the way and so proud of you

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Elijah

Good Luck Becky! You can do it!! What an amazing cause! x

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Faye Stone

Good luck Beci! You are absolutely smashing training. You should be so proud of yourself. Xx

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Kate M

Good luck Bec, go smash it 🤩

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Angela Redfern

Best of luck Beci! From Felix and Charlie (who remembers Steve fondly) x

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Derek Reen

Good luck !!

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Kath Kearns

You are a star Becky⭐️

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Siobhan Hanlon

You are amazing! ⭐️

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Lauren Mooney

Remember when we used to think a 5k park run was a long run 👀 🏃🏼‍♀️ Steve was right you are mad but we will all be cheering you on Bec! ❤️❤️❤️

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Tasha Crossley

Amazing thing to do Beci! Super impressed, and I’m sure Steve will be with you every step. You’ve got this! Big loves, Alfie, Teddy & Bobby xx

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Tricia Nicholson

Good look Bec, you’ll do amazing! We didn’t have the pleasure of meeting or knowing Steve, but have heard from others how adored he was at Firbobs. I’m sure he’ll be very proud of you and with you every step of the way! ❤️ Love from The Nicholsons xxx

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Becky Smart

An amazing cause! Good luck x

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Hannah Thomson

Best of luck Becki, you’ll absolutely smash it! Steve was a lovely man, the kids all thought so much of him, fantastic thing to do in his memory. 🤍👏🏼 xxxx

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Sue Roberts

What an amazing thing you’re doing! Well done Beci, you’re inspirational.

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Anonymous

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Pamela Stevenson

Good luck Becky, you will smash it.

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Lou Hunter

Good Luck Bec, you are amazing & will smash it 💪🏼 so proud of you. I know how much Steve meant to you. Lots of love xxx

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Iain Lomax & Lily & Nicky

Best of luck Becky! All our love, The Lomax’s ❤️

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Elise Jones

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Dean Boodaghians - Nolan

Hey Becky, good luck from all of us Leianna, Dean , Hope, Noah and Aurora! It’s amazing what you are doing especially for Steve who the family have lovely memories of. Smash it! X

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Shin

Run, run, run! Super inspiring and for such a great cause ❤️

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Anonymous

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Felicity Johnson

Good luck Beci! Billy still talks about Steve so his memory most definitely lives on. Lots of love, Billy and Max

£10.60

Emma Devaney

Brilliant cause Bec! So proud of you for all the training and hard work you are doing in prep for this. Good luck (although I think you’re nuts! 😂) xxx

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Marjie Kontzle

Good luck

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Greta James

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Angela Hess

Steve would be so proud of you even though he would say you were mad xxx

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Tahlia Margerison

From Tahlia 3P

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Haley Mckay

Good luck becks you can do it babe xxxx your bloody amazing xxx

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Alex Hatton

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Anonymous

Have a great run Rebecca. All the best.

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Bray And Liv Smith

Good Luck Becky. You’ll smash it.

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Anna Rimmer

Lovely Becky- best of luck!

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Lisa Le Poidevin

You will smash it Becci 🤩

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Michelle Parson

Keep smashing it Bec for Steve and for a charity close to my heart too 💗💪🎉

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Deena Acquah

All the best! You'll be great! X

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Anonymous

Good luck Becci! What a good cause 💗 xxx

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Nicola Williams

A fantastic way to remember an amazing man! Good luck Beci xx

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Anonymous

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Michelle Phillips

Good luck! X

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Steve Jackson

Good luck - smash it

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Anonymous

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Victoria Sheppard

Best of luck Beci! From Victoria, Frieda and family xx

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Joseph & Daniel Smits

Good luck Beci! Such a great cause in Steve’s memory!

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Elizabeth Williams

Good Luck Beci Love Oliver, Lula and Amélie xx

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Holly Speakman

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Hugo Savage

Good luck Becci, Love Hugo Savage (Thornton Hough Firbobs 😊) xx